A woman surrenders her power, in trust, to her man. A woman expresses her love by trusting. Thus, a woman empowers and motivates a man. If he betrays this trust (not only through sex with others but by generally not having his game tight), he loses his power. In return for her surrendering her power, a woman gets what she really wants - her man’s power expressed as his intense, undivided, masculine love. When this happens, she is included in his sphere of self-interest. Thus, what was once two is now one.
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Amen!
YES! x3
I can get with this.
Y’all ain’t ready for me…
Delicious…..and very sexy.
Big J.
For once, you made some sense. Righteous, brother!
Are you kidding, right? If not then you really don’t understand the implications or power. Power implies to bend someone’s will to your own. Authority is what you want. To have authority is to inspire someone to do what you want. For a man to have authority with woman is a beautiful thing. To have power over anyone is degrading to us all.
I love this quote!
Power is the noun that captures the act of authority being granted.
In my opinion, there’s nothing more beautiful than a woman feeling safe, secure and trusting enough to ’surrender her power’. Not degrading at all if you asked me.
I think the point Toni’s making about bending another’s will is more aligned with power that was stolen or forced, not granted willingly and lovingly.
THERE’S HOPE!
This is an excerpt from a message exchange i just had with my 18 year old cousin.
Me: “if you don’t want to be in Philly LEAVE NOW while you’re young and can easily adjust to a new place. . .”
Him: “aight but i cant do that because i have a girl and i ain’t tryin to leave her or mess up what we started.”
That made me smile so big!