Juliet’s Secrety Diary, a for negresses written by someone who appears to be the new Carrie Bradshaw, weighs in on some advice for women in relationships.
“The number one complaint was NAGGING. Let’s face it, no one likes to be nagged and if they did, everyone would still be living with their mothers. If you have to mention anything more than once and he heard you the first time, obviously he’s not trying to “hear” you at all.
“The second mistakes are jumping to conclusions and “asking TOO MANY DAMN QUESTIONS.”
“The third mistake deals with the trifling behaviors of drama, jealousy and shadiness.
TheStateOf . . . Juliet’s. Ladies, if you could listen to how men in relationships talk, you would hear this: “Man, I can’t get her to shut up!!! She won’t stop naggin’!!!” :-) For real.
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Amen!!
Morning Blacks!
I don’t hear the ‘naggin’ response from men who are older… or have been with their spouses close to a decade or more…
I do hear that the woman is still tender and ’sometimes just wakes up a different person’ and that’s aggravating at times.
Funny how this came up. The wife yelled at me from the bedroom to do something and then it hit me. “i have a nagging wife.” Five minutes later I walked into the bedroom and in an exaggeratingly exasperated manner told her that “I married a naging woman.” She was genuinely concerned.
Amen to THAT!!
wow.
I’m curious to hear from the men what constitutes nagging?
Sasha, I think the author laid it out rather succinctly.
Big Wayne has a bad memory, so sometimes I need to be reminded. But not twice in the same day. That’s nagging. That’s not the extent of it, but it’s just an example.
O/T
OK Big Wayne found himself in a freestyle battle over on DV’s blog. And now I need some votes. Go check out my lyrics and vote for Big Wayne! I’m servin em!
This can go both ways.
Some sensible advice for brothers from ImpressMe’s Diary.
Number one, procrastination. There’s nothing worse than to see a man keep putting things off forever! If you would just get things done, we wouldn’t have to remind you constantly and you wouldn’t call it nagging.
Number two, being too vague. If you would just tell us what we wanted to know and stop acting like we’re playing a game of Clue then we wouldn’t have to ask too many questions and jump to conclusions.
Number three, trifiling behaviors of drama, jealousy and shadiness. Let’s not forget men pretty much invented this cat and mouse game. Drama, Jealousy and Shadiness: don’t start none, won’t be none.
impressme. my problem is that no one has the right to change another person.
You either accept that person with all of his quirks, faults, ideosyncrasies or you move on and you find someone who better fits your qualifications.
The nagging isht is basically treating a man like a child.
Man, the nagging is the worst thing on earth. It’s worse than President Bush.
thestateofblog: Man, the nagging is the worst thing on earth. It’s worse than President Bush.
Damn that’s almost Satanic. LOL
Women see their husbands as glorified personal servants. It is really the most funny thing to me…”Carry this” “bring me that”
A wife gets upset when she sees a husband enjoying his own private time. Somehow, he needs to be serving her. So what does she do? Interupts his time to offer some suggestions on how he should really be spending his time (NAGGING)
LOL! @ it all
I have never been identified as a woman who nags. If I need something, I usually ask once and wait. If it does not get done, then I do it myself. Now, in the past this has posed a problem. Why do SOME men become irritated or feel a bit diminished when the job gets done without them? It’s like a catch 22. Men despise “naggers” but feel an inch or two shorter when it is done in the absence of nagging. Just a thought!
Ms. G. That’s a bit of truth right there.